I continue to be deeply disturbed by national headlines. Now we’re hearing that one of our “TOO BIG TO FAIL” banks has been caught with unseemly trading practices that cost its shareholders BILLIONS. JPMorgan CEO, Jamie Dimon, has been making the rounds offering explanations and apologies, but that’s not the point.
The point is: What happened to the notion you’re supposed to do the right thing – even when no one is watching?”
We’ve had SO many examples lately demonstrating what happens when this fundamental value is not followed. I give you last week’s headline concerning presidential hopeful, Mitt Romney. Mr. Romney claims he can’t remember the bullying incident at his prep school during which he was a willing participant. He can’t remember helping other teenagers hold down a screaming classmate while they cut off the boy’s hair. Mr. Romney says he was always a prankster, and can’t recall this particular incident. REALLY? REALLY? C’mon Mr. Romney, wouldn’t it have been better if you’d admitted you are embarrassed by this event coming to light? Maybe you could have said that it caused you to change your behavior and become more compassionate. Mr. Romney, this was a perfect time to demonstrate leadership and character. Instead, you bobbed and weaved. I was hoping for better.
But then, I hoped for better from another politician: former presidential hopeful and U.S. Senator, John Edwards. Look how that’s turned out. His corruption trial has brought ugly truths to light and shown Mr. Edwards as a man with no shame. No integrity here. A few weeks back, there were the Secret Service agents who decided since they were in a foreign country they wouldn’t possibly get caught. Only they did. Their off-the-reservation behavior shamed their agency and put a sitting president at risk.
What can we do about any of this? Be aware. The choices we make, do make a difference. That’s what we should be teaching the youngsters. Getting away with stuff doesn’t work. Sooner or later, there is a price to pay. Is it worth the gamble? Doing the right thing feels good, and the payoff can be great. It can seem that in the impersonal world of the Internet and social networking the rules don’t apply. REALLY? REALLY? Don’t bet on it!
*Mary Jane McKittrick is a former television news anchor, reporter, and producer, turned award-winning author of the Boomer and Halley series for ages 4-8. The Boomer and Halley project promotes a four-legged approach to PAWSitive behavior with embedded life lessons that inspire character, civility, and integrity.









